A Night in Thar
A famous saying-
""Ghoda kijiye kath ka
Pind kijiye pashan ka
Bakhtar kijiye lohe ka
Tab dekhiye Jaisaan""
"Kath" means wood. Have a wooden horse who does not ask for grass and water (ghoda ho lakdi ka jo ghas aur pani na mange). "Pind" means feet, "Pashan" means stones. Have feet made of rocks which does not get tired. (pair ho pathar k jo thakan na kre). "Bakhtar"
means torso. Have an iron torso which can bear 48-50 degrees
temperature. (shareer ho lohe ka jo 48-50 degree bear kr sake). "Jaisaan" means Jaisalmer. Then come and visit Jaisalmer
This
"Golden City" is among the most offbeat places in India and you get to
feel it as you sink in the golden sand of Jaisalmer.
When
traveling to Jaisalmer, it has a lot to soak in- Sun, Sand, Stories,
Culture, People, Folk dances, Camel safaris, moonlit nights.... what
more would you want??

The
stories heard and read about ancient India are still the reality of
this remote place. Ladies are not allowed to go out and study. When they
see a city girl traveling to this place, you can make out this from
their mere expressions. A really inhuman thing is Girl child is being
killed right after birth in some villages. There is a village where girl
headcount is negligible. Men pay lakhs of rupees to people in other
villages for marrying their daughters. There are hardly any schools in
this region. Men prefer to marry illiterate because she would not know
about the laws of separation or the actions she may take in case of
harassment. Love marriage is an alien word in their world. Tourism
helped in uplifting this region a bit and resolved their problems such
as water and electricity.
When
in Jaisalmer, spend a night under stars in lap of desert, switch off
your phones and switch on your senses and feel the rhythm of this gold
painted land, experience one of the most remote places in India by
riding on the back of a camel in Thar Desert.
This mesmerizing experience is what you need to clear your head before you take life by the horns.
Kuldhara – The haunted village of Jaisalmer
There
are a lot of stories being told in news/internet about this place. What
i got know after my visit to this abondoned village is:
Kul (vansh/parentage) + Dhara (dharti/land) : Kuldhara was land of Paliwal Brahmins, so it was called dhara (land) of their kul (Paliwal brahmins). There
were 84 villages in that region. 200 years ago (in 18th century),
people of these villages were harassed by ruler of that time and were
paying him huge money in form of taxes. One day, ruler offered Paliwals
to marry one daughter of their community but it was against their will
as ruler belonged to some other caste. So Paliwals decided to leave the
land. They vacated all of 84 villages overnight and cursed the king and
the land. Nobody knows where they went or what happened to them.
After
wars at borders, refuges started living in 83 villages but Kuldhara is
the only village where no one lives. Not because some ghosts reside
there but because this village is acquired by government to showcase the
old property to the world. A part of it is now under construction which
is being looked after an old man (and tells these stories). It is just
media which highlighted it as a haunted village.
Have you been to Jaisalmer? If yes, share your experience.